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Lisa Maria Grove's avatar

I've been realizing that every mismatch I've intentionally tolerated — and every mismatch my living system had to create or maintain in order to survive — seems to have carried a small, accumulating cost. And stepping away from those has led to surprising gains.

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Thank you for writing this, A! I've been waiting for you to put it down in one place, and now that you have, I can't wait to watch where it carries the practice. Something is shifting, and it's going to be good.

I have been learning over the last few years that so much of what we call being broken is just a body faithfully running old instructions inside a world built to ignore them. Once you see it that way, the whole hunt for what's wrong runs backward. We go after the symptom like it broke in through a window. But most of the time the symptom isn't the intruder. It's the report.

That's the part that undoes the shame, isn't it? A body running the right program in the wrong world isn't failing. It's being faithful. So the work was never to fix it. It's to hand it back something it recognizes and get out of the way while it finishes what it already knew how to do. And oh is that a hard one for the programmed world to swallow! Ahh! So exciting to know and continue to learn!

Grateful for you and excited for what is to come! 💜

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